Connecting My Dots is a free self-guided coaching journey to help you reflect on your life, discover patterns and move forward with clarity and purpose.
Through guided reflections and simple tools, you’ll uncover insights that help you understand yourself better and make choices that truly fit who you are.
Look back at meaningful life moments and experiences.
See patterns, choices and turning points that shaped your journey.
Choose your next step with more clarity and confidence.
A practical self-reflection experience in 6 steps. Go at your own pace, anytime, anywhere.
Start for freeThe Connecting My Dots framework helps you gain insight and move forward. After using it, you’ll be able to:
Gain a deeper understanding of the experiences that influenced your life.
Identify recurring themes, strengths and challenges.
Make decisions that align with who you are and where you want to go.
Dirk Devos has been guiding leaders, teams and individuals for more than four decades. Connecting My Dots brings his coaching insights and life experience to anyone seeking clarity, direction and meaningful growth.
Meet DirkLife is a journey of connecting the dots. When we understand our story, we can write our next chapter with more awareness and purpose.
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“ Het overzicht waarmee je start en vervolgens de verdiepende vragen zorgen in korte tijd voor een compleet beeld waarop je goed kunt reflecteren. Daarnaast helpen de vragen bij het opstellen van concrete acties om zelf mee aan de slag te gaan. Het overzicht waarmee je start en vervolgens de verdiepende vragen zorgen in korte tijd voor een compleet beeld waarop je goed kunt reflecteren. Daarnaast helpen de vragen bij het opstellen van concrete acties om zelf mee aan de slag te gaan. Met recht een waardevolle zelf-coach-tool. En als je toch hulp wilt, is er een hulplijn. ”
“ Connecting My Dots is far more than just a coaching tool. It’s a mirror that helps you understand what truly drives you and brings you back to what really matters: people, psychological safety, and self-awareness. Connecting My Dots is far more than just a coaching tool. It’s a mirror that helps you understand what truly drives you and brings you back to what really matters: people, psychological safety, and self-awareness. What makes it unique is how it translates deep self-reflection into practical insight. It helps you uncover patterns: the invisible dots that influence how you lead, collaborate, and react under pressure. By connecting those dots, you create more conscious choices, stronger relationships, and a renewed sense of purpose. As a leader, I see how this approach empowers individuals to take ownership of their own growth and mental wellbeing. It democratizes coaching in the most authentic way by putting transformation directly in people’s hands. When kindness becomes strength and awareness becomes action, trust and collaboration naturally follow. Connecting My Dots is not just a tool, it’s a mindset shift toward human-centric leadership and sustainable growth. ”
“ Connecting My Dots is not just a tool, it’s a mindset shift toward human-centric leadership and sustainable growth. ”
“ Great this tool is available for free for all. ”
“ I’ve had the privilege of working with great coaches throughout my professional journey — people who helped me grow, reflect, and navigate key transitions. But I’m deeply aware that not everyone has access to that kind of support. I’ve had the privilege of working with great coaches throughout my professional journey — people who helped me grow, reflect, and navigate key transitions. But I’m deeply aware that not everyone has access to that kind of support. That’s why I’m so impressed by this tool and by Dirk’s vision behind it. Making coaching accessible to everyone — free of charge — is not only generous, it’s transformational. It reflects a genuine desire to give back and to democratize personal and professional development. What Dirk is doing here is fully in line with his manifesto: sharing knowledge, empowering others, and helping more people benefit from what used to be available to only a few. ”
“ Leiderschap begint altijd bij zelfinzicht. Met deze app en het gedachtengoed van Dirk krijg je op een unieke manier helderheid over patronen en drijfveren die je eerder niet zag. Leiderschap begint altijd bij zelfinzicht. Met deze app en het gedachtengoed van Dirk krijg je op een unieke manier helderheid over patronen en drijfveren die je eerder niet zag. De app zet daarmee op een toegankelijke wijze aan tot zelfreflectie op meerdere domeinen. Het helpt mij om met meer diepgang te begrijpen hoe ik als leider denk, voel en handel en dat maakt elke beslissing bewuster en menselijker. ”
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